Hey guys I need hep with my ex! We knew each other for about a year and were really good friends. We started dating and it was wonderful! Our families loved each other and this guy and I wanted to get married. He said I was the love of his life. Something happened and our communication went south. I also had a lot of mental issues that I needed to deal with. He said that maybe he was supposed to be single and never marry. I broke up with him and told him that I still loved him and that I was doing this out of respect for his decision. Ever since school started its been a roller coaster. I've given him space and have tried to be his friend. We started to text again and he said he liked me and he couldn't help himself from doing that. He came over to my house and we snuggled and watched a movie and basically said we wanted to get back together. The next week he said I was stalking him and that he wants to get over me. He deleted me from his fcb! It has been 3 weeks since I've talked or texted him. I dealt with the mental issues I needed to and I emailed him a short letter about how I was sorry that I treated him like dirt and that I hope I didn't lose him as a friend. He says he wants to be over me but why does he look at me so much and always try to have eye contact?
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He is trying to force himself to get over you. It doesn't matter what you do now, he needs to deal with this on his own. He is the one that is not constant. One minute he loves you, wants to marry you, then he doesn't want anything to do with you, then tells you he wants to get back together, then says you are stalking him? He sounds all over the place. Don't reach out to him. Just tell him, that you respect him and what he wants. Then leave it at that. If that isn't good enough for him, then that's his problem.0