A couple months pasted and his family lost his aunt to cancer. I knew she was sick while we were dating and he mentioned that she wasn’t doing well after the FWB stage but didn’t want to see me or talk to me, so I left him alone. I sent him a text saying I was sorry for his loss and before I could offer to be there for him as a friend, he became more concerned about how I knew about the situation, than appreciating that I reached out to him after two months of avoiding him. Now, I totally understand that he was going through a difficult time but it’s not like he told me about it. His birthday was less than a week after losing his aunt and I didn’t send him any type of birthday wish (he didn’t really sound like he wanted to hear from me).
Recently, it was my birthday and now I get an email saying, “Happy Birthday! Wish you all the best”. I just want to know if after all that has happened between us, if he still thinks of me. Did he say happy birthday to be the bigger person, because it was polite, or did he do it because he really was thinking of me?
Guys, what do you think?
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walk away hun...he's a spa! he should've been grateful for your concern, grateful for the fact that you were prepared to give him a second chance...not arsing around like he had any call in what was right and wrong in the relationship...
you were the one doing him a favour...he's not prepared to let you go but he doesn't care enough to give you what you want.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE