The father of my child is almost 9 years older than me. We have a 1 year old son together. Because he could not financially support our son I had no choice but to apply for food stamps and move into the projects.In the past, I have prostituted myself because I am not a down point, and not receiving much help.
I am from a upper middle class family and by no means am I used to this 'not having enough money' lifestyle. I qualified for a 1 bedroom apartment in the projects. The environment is rough,and my place very tiny. My son's father wants to move in with us, and I don't want him too. He pays the rent which is only one hundred bucks a month. I don't want him to live with us because 1) the place is really only meant for one person. 2) he is the very lazy type and will get comfortable and probably won't do anything to better our living situation.
HELP! How can I tell him this, without him getting angry? He is 32 and I am 23.
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If he's paying the rent, why do you have an issue with him moving in. If he wasn't paying it you and your kid would be on the street. If you don't want him living there, pay the rent yourself.
Sorry, but raising and financially supporting a kid is a job meant for 2 people. You're making it sound like it's all on him.0