i dont understandddddd. he's hitting up all his old hoes, who are not worth it. i dont get why guys do this so can someone explain? like he's out here trying to have different bitches in different states and be like his homeboy who plays girls and fuck with multiple ones. we dated for 3 years so maybe that has something to do with it? he's 20 so maybe he's immature and still not a man? someone help
also any advice on moving on would help thank you <3
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You answered your own question. He's 20. Most guys (and girls) don't necessarily want to settle for being with one person at that age.
As far as moving, time is going to be a significant factor since you said you've dated for 3 years (plus you're young). But you can consider adding new hobbies and goals to your life where time would have otherwise been spent just hanging out with him. Who knows, someday you might view the experience as a blessing in disguise. A girl broke my heart at 19, and thought my world was going to fall apart. In hindsight, I definitely dodged a bullet.
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