Honestly, how do you truly move on when you loved someone so much, but their drugs and partying were there priority. I know moving on is all I can do, but damn it is so hard. I cared about him so much, but his lifestyle of partying came first and caused him to make bad choices. After I quietly walked away, he panicked, but then he just got worse.
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If he was your first love, you never do forget.
There is no exact remedy on moving on. It takes time and patience. If breaking up was easy, well then, we wouldn't be here, would we? Keep yourself busy. Join clubs and organizations. Do community service. Donate to charity. Start a hobby. That will distract you, in which is the most helpful. It will be painful, trust me, and it will take sometime, but you will get over this. You are under 18, and trust me, even if there was an oil spill in the Gulf, there are still plenty of fishies out there. Don't try to forget. That makes things worse, but don't think about it ethier.
I would also suggest to talk to a school administrator or counselor about him. He may not appreciate it now, but one day he will.
Life goes on hun, whether we like it or not.0