OK so there's this girl I find very attractive in my English class. I went to her facebook and noticed she had a formspring so I decided to comment it with some cutesy pick up line. she replied that she really liked it and thought it was cute. I then said "hahaha maybe if I get the guts ill tell you who I am" and she said "hahaha don't be a stranger now".
so obviously she wouldn't mind me telling her who I am. but I've never spoken to her at all. how do I go about approaching her and telling her I did the comment?
I was thinking try talking to her a bit, then bringing up the formspring thing. or just flat out approach her, tell her I did the comment, then try and start talking to her
Btw I did this comment as an "icebreaker" to try and start talking to her by the way
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AWESOME, you've come a lot farther than when we originally had talked.
Look man, why stop something that can be a lot of fun? You are writing on her formspring and she's thinking you are nervous/shy/etc - so why not keep it up, build a little comfort in her, and ask her on a date?
If you were to go from this one (or only a select "few") comments on her formspring, to asking her out for coffee, she will be wierded out.. Even if it were more subtle where you just wanted to tell her who you were.. It'll kill the attraction you have working to your favor.
Think about it? Isn't it a bit mysterious, to her, as to who it might be - she can live her fantasy world for a second, and you get to see how a beautiful girl likes you for you, EVEN when you told her your nervous. Not necessarily in a romantic way - but in a way that says: "You are a good, cool, and fun guy" - and lastly, you can have some fun in a rather boring world. What's the best form of fun? Attention from the sex you're interested in while just enjoying their company - no "secret plots" to try and f*** them.. Just smiling and enjoying who the other person is.
Sooooo - my true thoughts are that you should keep being genuine - if you feel scared, feel scared; if you feel nervous, you're nervous.. if you feel attracted, you feel attracted.. But don't do my mistake of trying to flirt when I really couldn't.
Other than that, just continue having fun. After a while you can turn the interaction into a game, where she has to figure out who you are, and you get to give her tips.. etc and so forth :P