So I dated this guy for 3 months. We had an insane amount in common and never fought. We met through facebook friends and decided to meet one day to jam, he plays guitar and I play bass. He lives in a near by town but we met at a store and jammed at a house of a guy we both knew. That day we talked for hours, texted nonstop, and where together all week. He asked me out and we just fit. He moved to my town and we always were together. We even had a band.our one month was amazing and we went to a concert. Not too long after that he said he loved me in the cutest way. Things got intimate after 2 months. (He was my 1st I was his 6th). Everything was perfect, except he had money issues and some trouble in college. Then one day my bff blew up on him and he stormed off. The next day he ranted to me about not defending him but everything was fine and we moved on. 4 weeks later at work, we passed notes ranting about the annoying girl he lived with, he rented a basement from a family. The family found the note and kicked him out. He was fine with it and moved home. Two weeks later he started being all quiet and shy. After 3 days he apologized and wrote a four page note explaining how he felt bad making a band without me, etc. We made up and had a really good 3 month the next day. 3 days later I was out of town and he hung with friends. I got the vibe he was angry from his texts and left him alone. Then I didn't see him @ work the next day but he sent me a text saying we'd discuss it after work. Then after work I got another text saying he needed more time. The next evening we met in a park during a rain storm. He talked to me for like an hour explaining why he was leaving. I got cold so we sat in my car. He started balling and held me in the tightest hug ever. His reasons where that he was tired of being an assh*le to me and his friends said I just seem like a friend. I gave him a bracket Id bought him and he cried more. Plus he said he loved me more than every girl he'd ever lived combined and would never stop loving me. He said he'd always be there for me, would still hang, and would text me everyday, but he wouldn't push me. He'd give me time but wouldn't give up. My mom called so I had to leave and the last thing he said was, "I love you." That night he texted me all night. The next few weeks he sat by me everyday at work and still texted me plus I went to his Halloween party. We even still hung out. Then he started playing the depression card and tried to make me jealous with other girls. (this is after he saw me with a guy friend). Next thing you know, he is dating his brothers most recent ex girlfriend and he talks a lot less. His friends told me all he does is complain about her and he's trying to get in her brothers band. On top of it he's trying to make someone jealous. He also still wears the gauges, chain, and bracelet I gave him everyday. He also doesn't want anything back. Not his clothes, cds, or even the drawing he made if the two if us. So I
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hey..sounds like you guys just need to talk this out. Obviously both of you guys like each other a lot and you guys have good connection. Just spend some time with him so that he'd not have to do all that stupid things to make you jealous. He is a good guy(I got that idea from your question only). And obviously you also sounds like a sweet girl...just go to him and ask him out. Spend as much time as you guys can be together. In your relationship, everything is really good, just need a spark or a push to make it work.
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