When he sees that I am getting on with my life he comes begging to come back, then leaves after a few days after making up fights and excuses to start a fight... this has been happening for half a year now.
If he suspects I may have met someone, which is not the case, then he comes running back to me.
Also, we have a month old baby. Last time he came back he said he was no longer in love but loved me so much. I am tired of this.
Any way to get this guy to wake up and make him commit and stay for good? Or forget about him. But I love him, and want us to be a family...
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I am going through the same thing right now and once she sees that I will give her another chance she says forget it and tells me it is not what she wants... there is a book out there that is really good yet it is made for marriages it works really well for dating/more committed relationships it is called The Love Dare... it is based on the movie Fireproof... I have read the book twice and watched this movie over 500 times(ya I know I am a guy watching a chick flick but once you watch the movie you will see why I have watched it so many times) My ex and I have 3 kids... In my eyes it is a control thing you are the mother of his baby as I am the father of her baby even though they want to be out there with someone else they are afraid if we do it we are pushing them not only out of our lives but our kids lives as well... I have a youtube link for this movie if you want to watch it online the book can be picked up at any major book store at a cost of 14.99US or 16.99 Cdn. It is our love that we keep taking them back yet it is us getting hurt over and over again... If you want to talk some more just inbox me and we can chat :)0