I recently discovered I have been cheated on, by the man whom made me believed he is the guy I will be married to one day. Apparently, he cheated multiple times, very good in keeping his "one night stands" as a secret. While he manipulated me that he loves me. After I have found out about his affairs, he didn't make up for it. But instead, left me. Now Im left all broken, and in pain. I dont understand how people can stomach this? Staying in a rel, convincing your partner you are faithful and in love, making her your fiance, while you cheat behind your partner's back? Then poof, walk out of the rel after you are done playing. I dont understand how in the world can people have the stomach and actively choose to cheat? If you dont want to be with your partner, rather than cheating and messing your partner up, stop being a coward and break up with them up front! Amazing.