If after a year and a half of a flirty -"might as well be dating" relationship nothing ever became official is it time to give up and just let him go?
We get along really well and I can see us together in the future but I'm tired of waiting - it's been over a year. He says he's scared and doesn't want to screw it up like he always does.
So what are the signs that it either is/will/won't be official? How do I know if I've been wasting my time... and how do I get over him because I've already tried several times.
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You honestly need to talk to him. I know its awkward having the whole "what are we" talk. But it's the only way you're going to get anything out of him. If you want a serious relationship and he doesn't, accept it, and move on. Talk to other guys go out with your friends, do whatever to keep your mind off of him, and hopefully he'll change his mind.0