Scenario: You and your high school sweet hearts have been together for 7 years, you had your ups and downs broke up and kept getting back together for unclear reasons. Every time you broke up it was because one of you wanted to have sex with other people. You end up having kids and they’re 2 years apart. Living situations could be better, but you’re trying to distant yourself from your ex and kids because you know that you still want them in your life but for some unknown reason now is not the time. You’ve made it clear that you’re moving on because you’re talking to an old co worker but your ex is dying for your attention. You plan to make a comeback into their lives sometime after you fill the void. What do you do with your ex, and what would you want to happen?