So I broke up with her in august, she was heart broken, I dumped her and I did it for good reasons mainly because I didn't feel in love with her after 7 months with her... things were going good, but I just couldn't lead her on (even though she feels I still did that to her) I ended early and I'm proud I did it sooner rather than later because I don't want her to waste her time on the wrong guy. even if we got along really well...
now at university, our small faculty, I see her on occasion but she doesn't look at me, talk to me. ANything. Its kinda intense. But I'm not sure what to think/do about it. obviouslty I've done nothing since. so
what do you think
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If you broke up with her, you can't really expect her to be this way or that, or to just be friendly to you as though nothing happenned. Clearly the relationship meant a lot to her, and also it can be quite a blow to your self esteem when someone breaks up with you when you sitll want to be with them.
Most people say that the 'no contact' rule is best when a relationship finishes. She may really want to talk to you, but it upsets her too much because things can never go back to the way they were.
Not really sure why you deleted her off facebook, seems a bit mean if you already know she's cut up about you to then make it look like you don't care...but on the other hand it's probably better for her not to be able to stalk you etc so she can get on with her own life.
Just don't expect to much. You don't obviously need to feel guilty, it's good you were honest with her. But it's a lot harder for her than it is for you. I've been there and I know being dumped can be really hard to deal with.0