I really like this girl that I met a few weeks ago but I recently noticed she wasn't talking much so I asked her about it. She said she wasn't ready to start dating. I had a feeling all along that there was an ex boyfriend on her mind but I didn't realize how intense it was. I've run into this problem before with girls where they've been so heavily damaged by an old relationship that basically I can't so anything but let go. This girl, I don't know she just seems really special- never connected with someone like I do with her. This isn't to be selfish, but is there any way to really help them get over an ex and move on to someone else? Can you get there mind off the past and look to the future (something better)? Any help or advice is greatly appreciated.
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be there for her when she needs it, give her time...just look out for your emotions, you don't want this to get the best of you...you don't need to fall for me and get hurt when she's not on the same level. just let her know that you're there if she needs anyone, but also if you do really like her, try to stay away from the "friend zone"...take her out and have a good time, bring friends, so its social...that way she'll meet new people and get to know you a little better...just remember it was the turtle who won the race, not the rabbit...give her time! good luck..but again, don't get your hopes tangled up with emotions2