After being broken up for 3 months (which seems like eternity). We have only exchanged text messages here and there…. I saw him on Friday. I left a bar late had a couple drinks but was still sober enough to text him in the middle of the night. 1am and I thought what are the chances of him texting back. To my surprise he did. He asked what I was doing awake so late and I told him I was out and I asked to see him. He said “Come over”. I went to his house and we cuddled and kissed. Of course he tried to have sex with me and I refused. I kissed the entire night. Every attempt I tried to make in leaving would wake him up and he held me closer to him, each tight hug ending with a kiss on the forehead followed with one on the lips. I made several attempts to leave but he would wake and ask me to stay longer. I then finally made a triumphant escape where he woke and followed me to my car. He asked me to let him know when I had gotten home. He pulled my face to his and kissed me so passionately like he had never done before. It was amazing. But in the back of my mind I knew this was just one night, one time. That’s it. I arrived home and sent a short message “Im home” His reply “Cool”. End of story. We have since then been contact everyday. Sending random text messages, Such as the following “I think I'm might have marked you on the neck…Sorry! Bye” (This was the following day after we saw each other) I replied by saying its cool. The next day he texted me again “Did you ever make it to the convention” I said “yes” . He initiates them first but I think its only because he doesn’t want me to feel used… Which I don’t. I have heard from people close to his circle that he is dating 2 woman. 1 he actually brings around for parties and other things. The other no one has met. They tell me he says he’s just dating…We dated for 9 months and all his friends still stay in touch with me. I have kept my distance. I don’t want to be the ex that won't go away.
- He still caresVote A
- You're being playedVote B
- Move onVote C
- I don't see anything wrongVote D
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It's been 3 months since your 9 month relationship... time to move on.
You contacted him at 1am after drinking... in his mind you were an easy score.
He's dating 2 women... neither of which is you. Time to move on.2