if so, how did you handle it?
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I remember the day I opened the local newspaper and read his engagement announcement. I sat there in shock. I guess I was in denial about the obvious signs that he was cheating. I looked up his fiancee's phone number and contacted her. I told her everything and we decided to meet. I showed her my phone bills, pictures, cards, letters etc. We both cried and realized how we both had been played. Then, we drove to his house and both of us went to the door. He opened the door and looked like he saw a ghost. We all went in the house. I told him I read his engagement announcement in the paper and called his fiancee. I told him he was dead to me and I NEVER wanted to see him again. His fiancee dragged him upstairs and they fought. He couldn't believe I found her! He needed to know I wasn't some f***ing dumbass anymore.
I remember going home. I cried hysterically, my body went numb, I felt a deep pain in my chest and was nauseous. I laid in bed for weeks, I couldn't move or go out. I didn't eat, all I did was sleep. He called me and begged me to take him back and I refused. I contemplated suicide for about 3 weeks but was too much of a p**** to do it. I remember going into the bathroom one day and I cut all my hair. I had long blond hair down the middle of my back and I cut it short. After I cut my hair, I decided to go out a little again, just to mesh with my friends. This was 3 months later. I was still numb, extremely depressed and down. I dated no one for over a year. He shattered me, my heart, my soul, my inner being. I have NEVER known pain like that. I have never forgotten it.2