Most Helpful Guys
Well, I once fell in love with a girl from my school, and she also fell in love with me, but I didn't want to have a relationship with her even though i felt happy around her and often thought of her. The reason (s) i didn't want a relationship with her despite mutual feelings was because I knew she didn't fit well to me, I didn't like some of her characteristics and personality traits/attributes, so I focused on what my mind told me while ignoring what my heart told me.
Most Helpful Girl
Realistically, sometimes love isn't enough to make a relationship work. Someone may love their partner but if they don't have very much in common or if they want different things out of life, then it doesn't make sense to stay in a relationship with them.
I loved my most recent ex a lot but ultimately, we just weren't right for each other. I wanted to live in a rural area, he likes the city. I valued being close to my family and he didn't care as much about that. I want kids someday and he does not. Even though I loved him, staying together would have been a mistake because one of us would have always been unhappy. It sucks but that's life.