I talked to my ex last night and she told me that it isn't easy for her to throw away our two year relationship. I asked her why not come back and she said she couldn't because she loves a new guy and it is true. She also told me that she hopes she realize that I'm the one she loves but hell I said ill stay away from her so that she could be happy. I don't know I'm confused she said she loves the guy when in fact they started their relationship after we broke up. She told me that what she feels for him is true... So I decided to stay away and she repeats that she hopes she will realize... I think its right to move on and stay away because I fell she won't realize our relationship.
Is she true when she said she will realize?(Though I think not because later on she said "if I will realize)
should I stay away?
those are my questions
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I agree with the guy who wrote below.
my ex cheated on me then told me he loved me and that it was really hard for him too and still thinks he can talk to me about it maybe working out between us in the future, even though he is still with the girl he cheated on me with. if this girl doesn't appreciate you enough to stay with you, or if she can transfer her feelings so quickly on to someone else, then she's not good enough for you. sure she might be a nice person, but either she has problems, or is greedy, or doesn't want to be with you but wants to reassure you that even though it's over, she still cares.
If she's got your best interests at heart, that's fine. But if you ever sense that the things she says are for her own reassurance, stay away. You don't owe her anything, she chose things to be the way they are. Actions speak louder than words.
I know it's really hard if you really felt like you connected with someone...it's hard to let go and hard to tell yourself that you'll be happy without them. But you will! Everything happens for a reason.