I asked if the NC really does work as you can see my ex and her new-quickly-after-breakup-boyfriend see each other talk on the phone all the time and text all the time... I told her that I would stay away and she said she would agree even if it is hard for her and that it pains her when I said ill stay away far from her... The way I see it making no contact is useless because she seem to be really happy with him...
Will it work in my situation? The No Contact Rule? They became a couple right after we broke up. And now that I severed contact I can see that she does not care if I stayed away... Advice and comments please... thanks
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The no contact rule always works... my ex dumped me for someone else, after only a week of no contact him and the new girl broke up and he was going crazy trying to get back in touch with me. I continued with no contact for a whole month and it made things so much clearer. Even though he had come crawling back, I just didn't want to be with him anymore because I knew I deserved better.
This new guy she is with is a rebound, just there to distract her from the break up. It won't last and when things fall apart she will be thinking about you. The no contact rule does work for getting an ex back, but I think you have to use it to help yourself see what happened in the relationship and decide if its worth saving.1