is it worth it or should I just end things? like what would you do in this situation? would it ever work if my fam hates him and his doesn't like me? we really want to stay together and make it work.
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Okay, I am writing this before I read it. Based on the question topic you chose, chances are if you have to ask that question at all, then you probably shouldn't be with your boyfriend and that you should break up with him... now I'm gonna read it
So your that is no where near being a pedophile at all! Hell depending on what state you live in you are probably of legal age. I know in my state 16 is the legal age. I personally, if I was your boyfriend, would've took him to court over that sh*t. If that was me, and he wants to be pissed then he can be a man about it and talk to me face to face. Not do some childish sh*t and f*** my car up. He's 23 years old, he should know better. As for your boyfriend dad not liking you, and your family not liking him, they can all get over it. If you really want to make it work then try and make it work. If your boyfriend was to actually meet your family, and be grown up enough to talk to them face to face about anything. Including the past incidents, then your family over time might end up liking him. Now like another answerer said, you never did mention how your boyfriend acts and what not. So its really hard for us to know if you should stay with him or not. Maybe your family members have a good reason for not liking him that we don't know about.
Now even though I said if you want to make it work then try to. but keep in mind its going to be really hard to get through this. Not only are these issues at hand, but you are 17 and he's 20. either one of you or both of you are gonna leave for school or work outside of the city you live in. Making it even harder to be able to see each other, on top of both of your families not like the other individual.
Overall, I personally would try and stay with him and see how things work out, but I would keep in mind that there is a really good chance you and him won't last. The biggest factor is that you guys have only been dating a month.. well 2 now if you two are still together, and not for several years and that makes a huge difference on how strong your relationship is and how hard you two would end up fighting for the relationship to work0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE