I'm back with my ex, worst mistake of my life. I thought it would make all the pain go away but it doesn't. It just made it worse. We only go to each others' houses never out and we always have sex and it seems that's the only thing he wants from me. I know what your all gonna say, leave him. but I can't cause I don't wanna be alone.. if I leave him I might regret it badly and if I stay I'm only gonna worry if he's cheating or he's still into his ex etc... I can't do anything cause either way I'm gonna hurt. I cry almost everyday over this guy and I was with him for 11 months before. I just want the pain to all go away, I wanna find a guy who doesn't want only sex. who will take me out on dates and treat me well. so far, that's not anywhere near my ex. and it scares me cause I'm never gonna find anyone who ill love just as much. its been a year sense me and my ex have split up but now were "back together" he just doesn't want people knowing.. that hurts even more.. so he can talk to his ex on fb and not me?
I just want the pain to go away:( I don't know were to start or what to do... I can't talk to my ex it'll only drive him away then he'll leave me..:(
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If your age is accurate then this is the best time to figure this out. You have a lot of years ahead of you. But if you really want to make it work then tell him all of this. If he loves you he will listen to what you have to say and want to make changes. But what it really comes down to is your decision. The pain of breaking up will only last so long but the pain of staying will last forever. If he does leave you because you have concerns and feelings than that is good. You need to be strong in this situation and rely on your close friends and family to pull you through this if it comes down to breaking up. But honestly if he is going to leave you because you want to be treated right and you want to express your feelings to him then he doesn't deserve you in the slightest way possible. Be a strong individual and take control of the relationship. Don't let him control you...1