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I think people mature at different rates and some are incredibly immature or even unintelligent even after they "grow up". Looking back on things from 3-5 years ago from my life i think to myself "why would i even react that way in that situation? "
it's possible that he doesn't know what he wants or that he is very bad at expressing himself (well that does seem kinda obvious) or that he's immature and doesn't know how to respect and cherish people
he might regret it in a few months or years and it might've been an impulse thing in the first place, don't assume people always know what they're doing