I’d really appreciate some understanding behind the behavior here. I saw my ex for the first time in months and months the other night. She was out celebrating her birthday, and I was out celebrating a friend’s birthday.
The background is, she cheated on me with a guy, and then shortly after I forgave her, she dumped me. I was left completely devastated for so long, I’ve never experienced anything like it. On the flip-side, over a year ago now, I kissed another girl and told her and after being forgiven - did a lot to make it up to her.
My ex saw me the other night whilst the girl I kissed so long ago was with us . She happens to have a boyfriend now and we are really good friends so I can’t see why she’d have reason to be jealous of us? But she stormed off. I followed her to try and speak but she was speaking horrible to me.
I told her all I wanted to do was to say hello and have a bit of a dance for old times sake. After all, she wanted to be friends and has been messaging me from time to time.
Was I in the wrong? What else could I have done?
I can honestly say, if she was with any guy there, I’d have been happy for her... and just happy to be friendly for old times’ sake.
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It's just jealousy. Most girls want to be every guy's #1, despite what our relationship to them is. Once they find out that you put someone above them on your list we get insane jealousy. She is probably just jealous and infuriated that you dared to put someone else above her.
It's not your fault at all. You can do what you want - she wanted to cheat, it was her decision. She doesn't have any right to get jealous and shout at you for it.
I get jealous for the weirdest reasons - sometimes I get jealous of people that I've never even dated! "Why does he like HER and not ME!?" That sort of thing. It's a natural emotion that comes with the territory I think.0