Would you consider this cheating?- I met a guy on holiday, spent 2 weeks with him and we really like each other, we decided to try a long-distance relationship. I haven't seen him for 3 or 4 months! But we talk on the phone everyday. I wanted an open-relationship, I thought it would be easier on both of us, he didn't so eventually we agreed to make it closed. I got really drunk a few nights ago and I kissed two guys, or they kissed me. I wasn't very aware of what was going on because I'd had so much to drink that I passed out soon after. I told my sister and she says I'm a cheater, I feel terrible but is it really that bad under the circumstances? I care about my boyfriend a lot, and I've never thought of myself as that sort of person before...
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If you cared about him so much then why did you kiss those guys? It doesn't matter if you were drunk or not if you REALLY cared about him something inside you would have stopped you from doing it.
And by the way I've been in this exact type of relationship before and trust me, it's not worth it. Without seeing or actually spending time with the person it's really easy to lose control of your true feelings. You may think you really like this guy but you may come to find out you just liked the feeling of having someone there.0