OK so here is the deal... I'm talking to this guy (he lives out of town) and we made a promise to not be intimate with other people... we've been talking for a good minute... but we are not together... which I'm OK with.. however I'm being pursued by other guys... I'm getting to know them too and thinking about hanging out with them... innocently.. is this cheating? Should I continue to be friends with these other guys? They ask me if I'm in a relationship.. I'm not... but I don't mention that I'm talking to anyone either... if you were the other guy (out of town) would you be upset? Bothered? When he comes into town.. we don't go out or anything we kind of just spend time alone together.. which again I'm good with because its just us and we couldn't get that if we were out... yet he goes out with his other friends...
Is this wrong? Should I stop?
What Guys Said 2
So you made a promise not to be intimate with other people even though you're not intimate together either, and make no effort to be. So you basically made a promise not to be intimate at all with anyone ever for no reason. What? Just tell him you want to call it off. What's the point of having it, especially if it limits you. If you want him, then you should be with him properly and DO see him when he comes. If you don't want to be together, then don't limit yourself to no intimacy. It seems completely silly and pointless and a shame to be in that situation.0
Yet he goes out with his other friends? Are these friends interested in him? I'm not sure what you are trying to say at the end. The promise you made was not to be intimate with anyone else. If your going to hang out with these other guys,and NOT get intimate, than you haven't broken any promises. The only time this situation is going to be wrong is when you start to stringing a persons feelings along.
Why did you make a promise not to be intimate with others if you are not together? Are you sure that he doesn't see it that way? I'm thinking he sees you as his girlfriend, why else would he have you make a promise like that?0
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