Granted, we live cross-country but were together before I moved out there.
We talked weekly even though we weren't together and would talk about hooking up and doing new years together when I came home for break.
Now he's ended it a week before I get back, and says the distance means we can't ever work. I'm like...why didn't you wait until AFTER we had fun this break? He's not dating anyone else...
Why can't he just chill out and keep his mind open about things? that way we can at least have some fun while I'm home
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I am not going to pretend your ex is not a sh*t headed jerk, sorry I am just not.
HONESTLY, no decent, mature gentleman would EVER do this to a girl. EVER. Even if his girlfriend was Paris Hilton. That is just low and cowardly of a guy, as if intentionally trying to ruin a poor girl's holidays. And I am sick of how such guys can do this to girls like you and you are the ones who cry, ponder through sleepless nights and strive to get back while they are too busy being an ass.
You should be happy you finally saw how low this guy really is. Thank GOD you didn't end up marrying this jerk or something. We run into sh*theads every day. Be thankful and optimistic on seeing this side of him, and move ON. Jerks are not worth your importance or time. He is a cowardly little girl who is not man enough to treat a girl like she should be at least treated.
Don't just DON'T even try to get back with him, don't even be friends with such a low shallow no lifer, I assure you, what he did to you is a horrible thing to do. You have seen what you needed to see about him, his true face. I will tell you what I tell to all the people who randomly get dumped in an offensive manner, don't even look at his face again. Express your hatred for his low act through a message and end it. You should NOT care about him anymore, avoid even mentioning his name. Wake up, he has already done what he wanted to, and you are NOT his personal door mat/toy. When you ignore him and block him from your life, he will feel guilty. And if he ever comes running back, get him out of your way.
You deserve better, and you have a whole future ahead of you, don't let such jerks get in your way and get you down. Trust me and take my word. You have a fresh start in life, CONGRATULATIONS.0