My ex and I are FWB. We broke up years ago so it really is just a sex thing. He has a new girlfriend so I stopped sleeping with him because I am not interested in being "the other woman". But I recently found out that when he first started seeing her, he was still sleeping with me (but I didn't know about her then). I was upset with him because he cheated on her with me. But he said he didn't cheat because they were not officially together. He also said that they are still not officially together (even though he refers to her as his girlfriend and its been 8 months) so we can still have sex. I told him I am done with this, because to me its cheating and I don't want to be part of it.
So I am just wondering, would you consider it cheating if you were seeing someone but not "officially" together?
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Yes, because his intent is to be with this other girl and he calls her his girlfriend. Put yourself in her shoes and try to think about what it could cause if they really do get together, plus 8 months is a long time for them to sort of be together. I would say to not continue sleeping with him, because it's not really fair to the other girl. Go with your instincts.0