I get attached too quickly... but don't really recognize it. Then if something happens and the guy quits liking me or doesn't want to pursue things anymore- I become absolutely devastated. When they like me- it's not that I treat them bad- I'm a great girlfriend, I just feel I get bored and kinda distance myself emotionally.
I care about EACH of my ex-boyfriends like crazy and actually the break ups were all mutual- but I always find when they start to move on that I get very depressed. Even if I don't want to a relationship with them in the first place.
Does anyone else have this problem? I'm sure its a path of perpetual unhappiness unless I figure it out.
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Your still very young! have a whole life ahead, I know hard to grasp, but your going to go through allot of challenges that are never what you need or seek ? you just go with it because it gives you happiness at the time? but focus on what keeps you above the normal! communication is going to be the most important tool to your happiness. if he can't communicate then your not going to remain a good feel to you? but if he the great communicator and can develop your trust your feelings for anything will disappear and your bore dum with be filled with spending intimate and fun times together and your lives will be fuller .
Also don't forget about your independence and your girl friends may want to influence this but your own decision is what defines you! right?
Apply yourself and what allows to you to feel good inside and once your self happiness has returned you can feel better about starting those feelings for some one. you have to mend your heart and direction of what is really important.0