There is this guy who can't stop staring at me, he keeps following me, does everything I ask him and can't stop smiling when I'm around.. His friends say that he told them that he is very much in love with me..
I don't care that he is in love with me that is not the problem.. it even flatters me.. but how do I tell him in a nice way to stop staring and stalking me? Because that pretty much freaks me out! I just don't want to hurt his feelings because he is still a friend of mine who I don't want to lose...
If he does not back off by the way.. how long will this crush take? Because he is under eighteen so it is a crush but it has been going on for six months now...
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At maximum? Around 2 years, total. It was not his choice, though. But you seem uninterested in him, so... he is doomed to suffer in unreciprocated "love".
You can't make him back off without hurting his feeilngs. His feelings currently rendered him to be in an irrational state of mind he has absolutely no control over. This is why I hate the emotion of "love", or rather "desire". Uncontrollable, and just makes people suffer. You are going to make a nice guy hate all women now and become a misantropic, misogynist introvert. Nice one.
...and see, this is why I never told my friends anything about my emotions. They would just go around and give out all information about me and mess my life up. Ughh... Well, people have to learn why not to trust others. Most often, the hard way.0
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