- No, there are other ways to help you recover your marriage
- Yes. Cheating on your spouse is a tiebreaker
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If a person is having sex with someone else, then the primary partner is not providing everything needed and wanted in the relationship.
That doesn't mean the relationship is not valued or that the partner is not loved. That simply means the partner isn't or cannot provide everything.
Why would you want to throw away what is good because people are not perfect? And if you are the one who is not cheating, then you are the one who is not perfect.
I know several happily married couples that are happy and married only because one or both has sex with someone else.
if you cannot salvage a marriage, or by them cheating they cannot be trusted, then separate... pending divorce proceedings...
but make sure you initiate as they may be quite difficult during the process