Say I met this guy and we've talked for almost 5 months, but he lives states away. We tell each other and we mean it. Then I met this other guy and he lives a lot closer. I don't know if I like him as much.. but I'm starting to talk to him too. Would you consider that cheating? talking to 2 guys at once or is it all fair because technically I'm single..
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I think something that almost everyone over looks is that cheating doesn't have to be physical. In my mind, cheating is when you make a commitment to one person, then you go to someone else to satisfy some of you're needs, whether they are physical or emotional needs. If you aren't getting everything you need to be happy in you're current relationship, then you need to get out of it.
You actually aren't in a relationship, so technically you can't cheat, but relationships are everything BUT technical. If you feel committed to one guy, and he feels the same, and you are leading on some other guy, then that is dishonest, and wrong. There's no problem with having other guy friends, but if you are leading them both to think that you're committed to them, then that's wrong.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE