i have never been cheated on but I have been that girl for countless relationships I have never ruined the relationship cept once. but guys never seem to be bothered some of the guys are just players and I knew that but others have been with the same girl for years and they still wanna cheat. what makes a guy finally calm down and accept one girls affection I get the whole I want to know if other girls still find me attractive and the whole secrative thing and no one will know but still. what makes you do it and still stay in the relationship and look at her and still say I love you to your gf?
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I could never do it if I loved the girl and wanted to stay with her.
But one of the things that could make me do it is that I have been disappointed in girls a lot of times and sort of chased off other girls because of them and it just sucks to discover you've done that for someone that wasn't worth it. So if I had doubts about this girl I could maybe cheat... probably not because I am just not the type but theoretically.
If however I'm with a girl and I tell her it's not serious and that I don't want to get tied down (or just somehow explain I don't want to be exclusive) than I don't consider it even cheating. Because I was honest from the start and didn't give her any hopes or anything and just dated her and tried to see where it would go.0