Back in September, my uncle started texting me asking if I wanted to hang out with him after a town parade...I said "sure" thinking it meant going to a movie or something. He then texted me telling me that he would pick up and alcohol and that he would be gentle with me because he knew I was a virgin. Long story short, nothing happened, we told the police, and my school. The police can't charge him with anything because it's over text. However, ever since that happened, whenever I'm alone with an adult male, I feel uneasy...I feel like I can't really trust them...my grandfather thinks that my uncle was just playing around or that I was seducing my uncle...I'm scared my uncle is going to come to the house when I'm home alone and will get in the house somehow..and then what do I do? Do I get raped?
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I'm sorry to hear that this happened to you. Even if it was a joke it wasn't funny. Don't let this guy take your power away by making you scared of other men. If your really scared he may try to come back for you I would keep a journal of any times that you see him or anything he says to you and tell someone you trust where you keep it (just in case something happens), buy a can of mace, and maybe get into some defence classes. Other then that just try to say away from this guy, but don't let him over power you with fear.
P.S. I hope everything works out.