Should I give up hope and move on?
We were friends for a few years and he would message me every few months to check up on me. I would initiate too. We flirted a lot and talked about life in general. For awhile, he stopped talking to me because he was going through something. Then we back to messaging and talking over the phone for hours. I wouldn’t say he is super confident in himself because he often talked about areas in his life that he wished were better. Recently, he deleted his account on the only mode of communication we had. Prior to this, he sent me a few picture of him shirtless and frankly, I didn’t know how to respond. I was surprised at this because we hadn’t teased each other with flirty pics in years. So I just sent him an emoji. Shortly after, he posted a story saying that he is getting fat. Then it followed with him deleting his account. The problem is that I had feelings for him that I held back from expressing. The connection we made in the past of talking was like no other connection. We had a lot of similar interests and he was always quick to make me laugh. He was witty and clever and knew just how to flirt. We were both book readers and his relaxed manner was a nice addition to my introverted self. Work got in the way and our busy lifestyles but I still had feelings for him through all that. I don’t know if I’ll ever feel the same for anyone else. I have a feeling he is not feeling too happy with himself right now because of his apparent ‘weight’. Now there’s no way for me to get in contact with him, unless I follow him on Facebook which I wouldn’t want to do, because we haven’t talked in awhile it would mean I couldn’t let go. Should I just let go and move on? Should I never have hope that he might come into my life again?
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