- Hold a grudge against the person
- Forgive them for what they did
Most Helpful Guy
Forgiveness of others, is never about them, its about you. Forgiving them allows you to let go of your hate and anger. It allows you to move on, the Felling of HATE and ANGER seeps into everything, skewing our views.
You can forgive, you don't have to forget or love them or even like them, you just leg go of your anger and hate.
My wife after 15 years, had an affair, with my friend, I was devastated, but I finally forgave her. it allowed me to move on, she is not my friend, lover or anything to me anymore, But she in not my ire and I am not angry anymore.
Most Helpful Girl
I'd probably be upset for awhile and grudging but I'd soon get over it and realize it was probably both our faults.