My boyfriend broke up with me, saying he didn't want one,but possibly we'll get back together. Just you know, "I just got out of a relationship"(which is true and he had a child with her) and he wants to get sh*t together I suppose.
I may be selfish for wanting to know why, why, WHY! He broke my heart and I can't help feeling like I wasn't good enough.
So can I get my closure and wait for him...or is it futile
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well I'm pretty sure you are good enough for him, and first of all, guys are complicating, and some don't think about how we feel. but the best thing to do is keep your head up high, and I also wouldn't really wait around, I would say be open to other guys, because you never know, he may not be the one. and also personally it could be a little bit of jealousy, not in a bad way or anything, but like he does have a kid with someone else, and I would be jealous too if he was going over there and seeing her. but if you really want to be with this guy, maybe ask him if he needs help figuring his sh*t out. and if he is being a jerk about it, and not wanting to talk to you, I would move on. good luck, hope everything works out.0