I know it is wrong, but I have been flirting with a married man via email in the form of telling him erotic stories. When I asked him to tell me one, he was keen; but then emailed to say he was scared and we should stop. I agreed taking it to mean he was not interested and joked I knew he would back out when I asked for a story. However he replied he has a good story to tell me, but will do so verbally. I am now unsure what he wants, to stop or continue down this path; but just not via email - help!
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Pretty much what R_slizzle said. Even if you did get with him, the roles are going to reverse, and it's not going to feel very good having it happen to you. You should be the one telling him to stop, out of consideration for his wife, and out of consideration for him as well. Chances are you are putting a lot of stress on him by making him unsure as well. Granted, if he really is unsure or willing to cheat on his wife he can't have the greatest bond with her to begin with, however that doesn't mean you should be the one to tear. Do that, and things will get messy, that much I can assure.0