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In my opinion you need to NOT talk to her for about two weeks. No contact, no driving by where she might be, no taking her flowers, nothing. She needs to see what its like to MISS you as much as you miss her. Right now you are letting HER call all the shots and, even coming from a girl such as myself, that's not the way to win a girls' heart. You need to show some self-respect and then she will melt into your arms. Trust me.
If she calls don't answer. If she comes to where you live don't go to the door. Then after about two weeks she will NEVER take you for granted again. If you love her you need to let her go for awaile and see what happens.
She sounds very confused to me because she keeps changing her mind - but people do what works and this, on whatever level, is working for her.
If you show her that you won't be played and be at her beck and call then she will be forced to make up her mind and then you will know FOR SURE what she wants and what she doesnt.
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