If you have to break up despite the fact that you still love him/her, what would be the reason(s) for you to not only break up but also cut all communication?
It will be more helpful if the reasons are not very obvious like violence or abuse.
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Here's my story. I met a girl online that was from the same state of me. Because of our ages, our parents wouldn't let us see each other - it was pretty damn hard to not see her when she was just about an hour's drive away. Anyways, after 9 months, she decided to break up with me because I was smothering her. During the break up, she kept saying really back-and-forth things. From, "I love you." to "I hate you." to "I need you in my life." to "I never want to talk to you again." ... so you could understand why my head was and still is spinning. BUT, to answer your QUESTION, I think her reasons for wanting to break up were, for one thing, like I said, me smothering her - which could have easily been solved if she had told me before it was too late - our constant arguing, my jealousy, - although she was jealous too - and the distance. I guess she wanted someone there, even though she's single. It has only been about two weeks though.
Too long, didn't read version: Not given enough space, not ready for commitment, arguing, jealousy, getting a feeling he/she just isn't the right person for you in particular.
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