Well here is my history:
I have been dating my ex-boyfriend for 1 year. 6 months into it, he broke up with me because he didn't want to be in a relationship. He told me I can't change the way he lives and that we will never go out again. We kept on having sex for 2 months until he broke it off completely because "he didn't want to hurt me emotionally no more". Then, I ignored him for only a week and he came back crying to me saying that he wanted to be in a relationship again because I was the perfect girl and that he misses me. Then, we went out again for 6 months and 1 month ago he did the same thing! Except that this time there is no intimate contact. He continued saying that he doesn't like the relationship stuff, but that I was the perfect girlfriend and that he couldn't ask for more (ie. id let him go out with whoever he wanted, no questions give him his space and only saw him twice a week (except for work because we work together ugh.)) Before me, he only had relationships that lasted like 1 month and he still wants to be my friend, but I still miss him like crazy and apparently he keeps on looking at me at work. He really wants to be my friend and to talk to me but he told me it would never work out between us. I keep on ignoring him and when he wished me happy holidays on 2 different occasions at work I completely walked away and ignored him.
(ps, I'm 20 and he's 25)
So basically my question is with all of that do you think he would ever come back to me again and want to be in a relationship? And how should I act for him to realize that he truly made a mistake? I'm not going to wait around forever though and I'm going to enjoy my single life but there's something about him that makes me really want to be with him again
thank you all for your time:)
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This is hard because I don't know the background. However from what you have told me it looks like he wants to be "friends" whether that is sexual wise or not his intentions may be hidden. Whatever you do don't let him think he can come to you do as he pleases than leave. Keep your head up high girl, you miss him now but things will get better !0
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