Husband is very overprotective of his phone?

My husband of 13 years has an optical security pass on his phone. I don’t know a password and don’t why he would have this. Tonight, I pretended to grab his phone and he jumped and screamed that his phone is his private business. I told him I was joking and he told me he can’t stand me, etc. As a man, why do you think he does this?

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  • It could be anything from messages to another woman to porn or something like that he'd just rather you didn't see. I kind of get the privacy thing though it is quite a shitty thing to do go raking through someone's stuff. It does look a bit shifty though and he definitely should TV be talking to you like that.

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  • My girlfriend of 2 years used to want to check my phone a lot, and while I don't really care too much about it, I know it;s because she didn't trust me fully then because I talked to a lot of girls and I dont really blame her. I sometimes ask her for her phone too, but I know she doesn't talk to any guys n all so I usually just send myself the selfies she takes on her phone. (shes ok with it). You should have mutual trust that you aren't cheating on each other, but if he's that overreactive, he is likely hiding something he doesn't want you to see.

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  • To be honest, that'd happened to me before. I thought I was paranoid and he told me he was talking to this girl i was suspicious about but there was nothing going on. Turns out he was telling his best friend that I kept accusing him of cheating and he was going to cheat on me, and that he was beginning to flirt with girls. But girl calm down, if you love him, just talk to him and say, in a marriage, everything should be transparent. Try exchanging passwords with him. If he is that worried, he's definitely hiding something, and it's NOT porn. Also, ask him what you could do to make him feel happier and the relationship better. Although you're paranoid, try to be nicer to him and give him more hugs and kisses. The make him give u the pass.

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    • I told him I don’t why he has optical password and then told him the password he gave me was wrong for our phone records and he threw his wine in my face.

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    • Yes for sure

    • You're so beautiful though and you seem to really love him. Try to give him some more love. Does he have an old phone you could look through, or does he leave him fb on the computer? Look for these when he's away.

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  • Probably has secrets or things that he isn't telling you. Otherwise I don't see why there would be security setup between a married couple of 13 years.

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  • I don't get it.
    If his phone has an "optical security pass", why would he jump up and scream when you grab it?
    Does he think you will gouge out his eyes ala "Demolition Man" to access his phone?

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  • he's hiding something... and the way he shaped at you tell's me this.. sorry you probably didn't want to hear that...

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  • I don't like phone check-up either. But to 'scream' at someone for this? He must be in high emotional stress; perhaps not because of any 'secrets', but rather in general.

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  • Does he play Clash Royale? Maybe he is ashamed to have spend hundreds on it to win. lol I don't know

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  • there is a divorce looming

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  • He’s hiding something 99.9999%

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  • So F uck it.

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  • I’m sorry but he’s cheating.

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  • He's hiding something

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What Girls Said 6

  • From what I read he doesn't let you check his phone , he is overly protective, he is bored of talking to you and he treats you bad by throwing wine on your face. are f financial issues bother him? He stays longer outside house than before or talking or typing at his phone more than before?

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  • Neither my husband or I have passwords on our phones. What does he do for a living like is there confidential client information on it? Next issue he can't stand you does he talk to you like that all the time?

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    • Yes he does talk to me like that all the time. He does not work for a place where he uses his phone for work nor performs confidential work with anyone.

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    • @Rcjh1987 That doesn't sound safe in this day/age of hacking and identity theft. Perhaps, have a shared/mutually-known password, instead?

      My very, very careful sister somehow lost track of her phone in a bakery/café. If either you or your husband "lose" your phone despite your caution… I hope your phone doesn't have your online banking data, important addresses, confidential/compromising info, pictures of I. D.'s/documents, etc.

    • @N192K001 my husband dossnt really use his phone like that but I do and you are right. I've been thinking of putting one on anyway because of my 9 year old.

  • He could be cheating or just doing something wrong in general he doesn't want you to know about. I would confront him about it.

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  • He's def hiding something.

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  • That's so suspicious. My husband can care less if I go into his phone because he has nothing to hide. I feel like your husband may be hiding something

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  • He is hidinf something.

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