Have you liked someone deeply but you weren’t ready for a relationship?

A guy I was seeing for months admitted to me he really did like me. And I believe this. He’d constantly ask to hang out, he was very very respectful when it came to sex and never asked until I told him to do it. He’d compliment me and went as ahead as saying “one day we’ll do this” “let’s do this one day”. But then suddenly he told me he isn’t ready for a relationship at all and has lots to experience yet. Of course I respected this and said my goodbye because I knew it’d hurt me if I kept talking to him. For weeks he’d constantly message me through various platforms. So really I wanna know your experience, have YOU ever liked someone or had someone like you but weren’t ready for something serious? Why does this happen if things are great?

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  • Yes, but I know she's not relationship, or girlfriend material so will never go beyond a certain point. She of course, being as attractive as she is, finds it confusing, but most people in general do not have introspection so never see themselves...

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  • yes, and i’d recommend not falling into that relationship unless you’re ready. i myself am a pretty emotionally and mentally unstable person, and being in a relationship pushes you off the edge unless you can keep that balance. it turned out that i could not, so the relationship i had ended up crumbling by my own hands.

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What Guys Said 6

  • Yeah, that happened to me after my last break up. I t tried to date girls but I simply couldn't give them what I wanted to give them.

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  • Maybe he thinks that you deserve someone better than him. Even I feel the same way for 3 of my girl- friends.

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    • He has actually told me I’m too good for him and that I deserve better. But even after this he still tried coming back

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    • Confused about what would you say?

    • Look, he thinks you deserve someone better but somewhere he still likes you.

  • Yes, I don't trust people at all so if I sense something is not quite right I will push them away.

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  • Oh brother. He saw you as a fuck means chuck em plain and simple

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  • Plenty of times.

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  • Kind of. But I dont trust people any more.

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What Girls Said 1

  • It depends on if I'm drinking tequila or not.

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