So recently I've been going out and talking to this girl. We've been on three dates so far. On the second date I bought her something as a girl 2 t-shirts, I also picked her her to take her to work twice, and she even called me on the phone for a ride to a store, to return something. She then told me she wanted to eat, so I took her to eat and we spoke for a while. Anyway on our way back, I popped the question so what are you looking for in a man. She said she's not really looking for anything serious right now, it told her its not about looking for something serious but about knowing what you want in a men. I like to see where things go, and not rush it. But come on, you men to tell me you know wht I want your wasting my time, or using me for free rides. Is it me or does it sounds like she just want to take advantage of me I always tell her I like her , but she never says nothing back. I don't like wasting my time. Sometimes women lead men on and then they act like they don;'t know what's going on, or like they don't know we like them in that sort of way. What should I do orsay I really don't want to be wasting my time with someoneone who doesn't really want anything with me. We haven't even had our first kiss which is truly unbelievable.