My ex broke up with me. After a while, she started seeing a new guy. A month later I figured they broke up cause it was a rebound thing and he lives very far from her. She started contacting me a lot and texting a lot too. We spoke on the phone several times. THen she even asked to meet up. So I was sure its over between them 2. I took her out for coffee. It went pretty well, catching up talking etc.. But she told me she is still with the guy. I've read it all wrong I guess. Was wondering if anyone could shed some light and help me out. Thanks.
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Don't be "that guy" who's got so little going for him that he waits around to get the sloppy seconds of other guys.
If she didn't want to be with you before then she's not valuing your very much. And if you're hoping she'll take you back, then YOU'RE not valuing yourself very much.
Ste back and realize that you're just feeling lonely and rejected. These are temporary feelings... they are NOT your defining characteristics!
Reconnect with good friends if you're lonely and you'll realize that friends are AWESOME.
Meet new women if you're horny or need female attention.
But DO NOT return to where you've once been burned. You deserve better then that!
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