I've heard from reading break up stories on here that male exes often come crawling back after a few months. But this has never happened to me! Is there some relationship secret out there that I'm not privy to? haHaha
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Here's the secret: nearly all those guys, are morons.
You break up for a reason: something in the relationship is wrong, or there's something outside the relationship that you can't find inside the relationship. The first is hard to fix, the second, impossible.
A small minority of the ones crawling back mean to fix the relationship. Most miss the regular *ss, the company, the intimacy. Many have just never figured out how to be single. All will rediscover the very same problems they left behind.
Now, if you crawl back into a bad relationship, with the same dealbreakers that it had before, and you have no plan to change anything, then you're just a dumb*ss, and your friends will tell you this when you come to cry on their shoulders after you've broken up the second time.1