my girlfriend of 1 year hooked up with two guys both of which I know. She did this while she was unsure of how she felt about me. We were also on a pseudo-break. But still she hooked up with two guys during this time period and she doesn't even like doing sexual things. She doesn't really know why she did these things. She is a self destructive person, maybe this is why...but why anybody would be self destructive is beyond me.
Both of these guys had girlfriends.
Do you think she was trying to boost her self-esteem by doing this? Maybe she felt good knowing she could hook up with guys that already have gfs...
What would make a girl do something like this? She told me there that I didn't make her do it...she just said she was a f***ed up, awful person.
Both of these guys ended up liking her and wanted a relationship, but in the end she finally realized how much she liked me and stopped talking to both of these guys.
SO I am staying with her. Is this a mistake? I don't trust her and she knows that. I try not be as good a boyfriend as I was before as she has to earn that back. Let me know!
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Don't take her back right away. You both need time a part. No contact which is hard to do but you need to figure out if this is right or not. I'm not saying that you should break up or you shouldn't get back together because that's for you to decide. But you do need time away from the situation both of you do. Figure out what went wrong in the relationship because clearly she was unhappy with something otherwise you wouldn't have gone on a break. Find the problem and see if you can fix it together but take at least two or three weeks apart. Its tough to do but honestly the time apart will help you think clearer.1