My ex girlfriend after dating for 9months said we clicked well together but didn't have chemistry... I think she's full of it. When we dated we got along great emotionally, intimately, and physically. When we broke it off she gave her ex another shot. Why all this sudden b.s. about not having chemistry, could it be related to her wanting to get back with the ex or did we really not have chemistry cause I sure felt it and I know she did to. Would you girls date a guy for 9months while not having chemistry with the guy you were dating, it makes no sense?
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a relationship based on chemistry is not going to be successful. at all. chemistry is a bunch of fluff. this amazing, much-sought-after experience of "falling in love" is equated with overwhelming feelings that discount reason, background, shared interests, or compatibility. that last statement comes from a book written by Chip Ingram called Love, Sex and Lasting Relationships. I highly recommend it. it is the best book on dating/relationships that I have ever read, and believe me... I have read A LOT of relationship books :)0