She seems disinterested, tries to avoid me, doesn't message me first anymore, and whenever we are together she complains about head aches, and just wants to sleep
She also stopped coming on to me sexually. We haven't had sex in over a month. and the last few times we did it, she seemed totally disinterested. So I stopped initiating
Its like she wants nothing to do with me
She is very busy lately. she has finals, and exams, and is applying to grad school. So I have been holding on, hoping maybe things get better once her semester ends.
I really care about her and love her, but I want to break up with her, she just makes me miserable, and I can't express this to her because I am afraid it will effect her studies and I dont want to be the reason she fails.
I am hoping this will pass, do you think it will? or is our relationship over?
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Wait until finals are over and talk to her. When I was in school and prepping for finals it was draining in every way possible. School itself is draining but as the semester winds down its not just finals due but it's also assignments and reading and study groups and everything else. I shut everybody out when I feel overwhelmed so maybe she's just overwhelmed also.