So I broke up with my ex because he was treating me badly. I loved him to bits but I had to walk away as it was making me miserable. We were very in love for a year but there were always other girls hanging around and I know now he cheated on me. I think he was very shocked I broke up with him. I wanted him to change so badly but he just never did (smoking pot etc) But within 3 weeks he had a new girlfriend (definately was not on the scene while he was with me) and was plastering pictures of her and him all over facebook! They are still together 2 months later and officially 'in a relationship"...he looks happy and I'm still trying to get over the fact that I had to leave the love of my life.I was a great girlfriend to him and he said after we split the best he ever had and he thought I was THE ONE. I keep thinking oh he is probably treating her way better and has changed for her which kills (though I am not freinds with him on facebook he has an open profile and he text messages sometimes to tell me he misses me and sends me pics but has NEVER mentioned the girlriend) How can guys move on that quick? For me I feel like I only ever meet someone special once every few years...he was such a jerk and now he gets to be happy!? And with a new nice girl? I feel like I meant nothing to him and it kills me because I put so much into the relationship. He just forgot me and loved on..im devastated...
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He stopped liking you a long time ago. Basically, he had already began to move on way before you broke up with him, which is why when you did, things were easier for him. I could be wrong, but I know this happens quite often. Don't think as if you meant nothing to him, because there could have been a time in which you did, but then it passed. It's common and happens all the time with lots of people, but we deal with it in a different way.
Also, here's a thing about guys who cheat on you and stuff like that. The reason why they look so shocked, is that by leaving them, you are making them feel like a monster. You make them feel guilty, and they try seeking for your forgiveness so that they can then sleep better at night. Because nobody likes to feel like a monster. It doesn't mean they care about you, though.
Also, not all guys move on so quick. We either didn't quite like you as much as you did, never liked you in the first place, or - as it might have been in your case - might have stopped liking you in the middle of the relationship.0