Honestly, its the most difficult thing yet. After asking my last question when to contact a person when your on a break of course I went ahead a couple of days later when I was drinking to text her and it went well, I got a little closure out of it. I did it again today and it just makes me want to be back with her, its agonizing. How can I resist so that I don't have to feel feeling of pain? I love talking to her, I love her but it hurts so much. How can I stop myself?
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went through the same thing. I went 3 weeks without contacting my ex. but the minute I caved, it was heartache all over again. for me, he mostly didn't respond which was better. but there were some times he would, but it was just to tell me to leave him alone. the more texted, the more I wanted to keep doing it. there is no easy way not to contact. you can delete the number, but if you have it memorized, this is pointless. you can keep your phone at home, but most people need their phone. best thing, just keep telling yourself "if she wants me, she'll call". "if she wants to talk, she'll text". she has your number, she knows how to contact you. if she isnt, its for a reason. just try try try to resist, but don't beat yourself up if you give in. happens to all of us.0