My ex (who wants to be friends) can't understand why I'm annoyed that she is dating her back up guy. He was always around (as a friend) after she had told him she wasn't interested in anymore than friendship. Now after we broke up she ran straight into his arms. She acts like it shouldn't be a problem as we had broken up but I just feel she maybe kept him as a back up guy (without my knowing) and he took his chance. I don't want to be friends and think this is a reasonable reason why don't you?
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Let me tell you this. Girls ALWAYS have a back up guy no matter what. Why and how? It's because girls are always chased and guys are not it's that simple. DO NOT be friends with her, not for only this reason you shouldn't be friends with her anyway. What kind of "friendship" would it be? Move on and date other girls. Just remember that there are always guys out there that will try to get close to your girl and they will keep them around because you never know. Therefore you have to have girls lined up just in case, not to cheat or to have a relationship while you have a girl, but just in case a girl dumps you.0